In a whirlwind of emotion

I cannot stand conflict.  I hate every minute of it.  Whether I am right, and I know it......or I am wrong.  I hate the knots I get in my stomach and I start going over each and every detail of what went wrong.  I dont like hurting people or seeing them hurt.  Maybe it was the way I grew up, in constant tension, never knowing what arguement would rear it's ugly head.  I guess I am a people pleaser at heart, which could be a good or bad thing.  I do not want another bout with bleeding ulcers and migraines.  I am so thankful I dont have to do anything on my own..........God will help me and my family every step of the way.